The Gottman Method

increasing intimacy, connection, & communication

The Gottman Method is a research-based approach to couples therapy that focuses on assessing the relationship, and then implementing proven strategies that help reduce conflict, foster friendship, and create shared meaning.

The Gottman Method can be used with:

  • Couples who want to increase intimacy

  • Couples dealing with poor communication

  • Separated Couples

  • Couples spanning all economic, racial, sexual orientation, and cultural sectors

  • Couples dealing with infidelity

What is a Gottman Method session like?

Individual interviews will be conducted with you and your partner to get a baseline of where the relationship is at. Then, together you and your therapist will discuss what interventions may be useful for you as a couple. The goals of therapy are to learn healthy conflict resolution, build intimacy and respect, work through feelings of stagnancy, and foster empathy and understanding. Tools will also be discussed to prevent returning to previous unhelpful behaviors.